"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I want to date my ex's best friend/friend, is it okay? and how can I ask her out?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
FwoGiZ
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How crazy is your ex?
My ex, would never come break my sh1t for say but if I feared for any of my stuff/house/etc, I might reconsider.
I live in a small town and it'd be hard for me to stay away from her friends.
devilkingx2
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wifehunter
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
FwoGiZ
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Why do you say that?
I bang about 4 out 5 of my ex's friends?
Where does 99% come from? your own personal experience? You might be doing it wrong if so.
Giving girl orgasm is a must imo... my ex been telling all her friends about those orgasm and maybe that's why they're lining up now that I broke up... big return rate too. That along the fact they all know I am chill, never get angry and would never do anything harmful to them.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
I just knew a lot of girls who'd be really mad if their friend did that to them, and a lot of their friends wouldn't want to drive a wedge between them to bang some random guy.
Although i did have a thing with a girl whose friend was trying to steal me away from her, but those girls weren't really friends they only acted like it and tolerated each other.
So i suppose it depends on the relationships and personalities of the girls in question