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You spend a lot of time vetting her and her friends and family.

Do not marry someone that you have a toxic relationship with where you constantly fight about stuff. Shouldn't even be in a relationship like that but apparently this is a large portion of people's default relationship.

Do not marry someone that brings a ton of debt to the marriage that you have to help pay off. Do not marry someone that loves spending money like water or is terrible financially. Finances are one of the biggest things people fight over in a marriage and the number one cause of divorce.

You don't always have to share the same views about things but there are certain things where sharing the same views are really non-negotiable or you are simply setting yourself up for failure.

These are finances, children(having and how to raise them), city of residency(ie, don't marry someone in the Midwest from Miami that wants to go back to Miami and you don't), and willingness to compromise on important matters that don't fall into the above categories.

If a person is unwilling to compromise they cannot be in a marriage that will last. There are too many situations and decisions that are never ending in a marriage that require compromise and if a person doesn't have the ability to do it, it will not end well...
 
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