I want to ask this girl out but....

[benindeeto]

Hey guys, i saw this forum linked from another forum.

Here's my problem, I saw this chick on the bus the other day. i remembered her from elementary school (Im currently in college) but i couldnt think of her name so next time i see her i think i've got my ice breaker which is basically talking about how i know her from somewhere, what have you been up to, kinda thing.
but what worries me is that she seems like the quiet type and im worried that when i ask her on a date she wont be talking to much and it'll be awkward. only because im more of a listener, i dont really like to talk about myself and girls find it boring when guys talk about themselves too much

any advice?

 

[GaryNas]

When I was on a "break" with my gf about 2 years ago I saw a girl I went to elementary school with at a local store. I stopped her and said, "Hey, aren't you <blah blah>". I said that I had to go, but that we should get together and I then gave her my number. Two days later she called and we hooked up. The date wasn't too great because it turns out we had absolutely nothing in common, but I'm still glad I did it just to gain experience.

I wouldn't worry about it being awkward, just do your best and whatever happens, happens. You'll never know unless you try.

 

[benindeeto]

thanks

if i see her tommorrow, i'll ask her for her number and see where it goes from there

i'll update tommorrow

 

[Dapper Swindler]

Have you read the DJ Bible yet?

 

[skinnydart]

Yeah, I was kinda wondering about that too, what happens when u are both the quite/listener type? I don't say to much and I really want to ask this girl who is really shy (and sexy) out, but I know she won't say anything. Is this an excuse to break the DJ rules and go do something active (like see a movie), until you get more comfortable around eachother rather than sitting down to a meal to "talk and get to know eachother"?

 

[Hoppy]

Even shy people talk. You just have to make the extra effort to put them at ease.