check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
wow how can some one that has been registered for 2 years and sent over 400 posts, be so AFC
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You forgot to tell him to write poems about her, and sing those poems with a guitar each night outside her window.Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Dude, this is an easy one. Compliment her a couple of times every day, specially about how beautiful she is and how she makes you feel, buy her flowers, invite her out to dinner, tell her you are much better for her than her current boyfirend is, and most of all, have the "Relationship Speech" prepared and ready to go and tell her how you feel about her.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Its good to see that there are still people on this board with CHARACTER.Originally posted by Nightbreed
I DO NOT ACCEPT when a guy MAKES something go wrong. That's sabotage.
I DO ACCEPT other guys will want my girl. It's how they conduct themselves that matters. Let's face it, if you're with a fun hottie, even your best friend is going to go and knock one off thinking about her, and snatch a glance down her top, and so on. If he's man enough to admit it, great. Same with any other guy who would.
REMEMBER: In a truce even enemies respect each other as allies. But someone who violates a truce will never have allies.
On a side note, if you're girl plays away, sell her to the other team before she disgraces your game.