check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
wow how can some one that has been registered for 2 years and sent over 400 posts, be so AFC
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I want this girl that have a bf
- Thread starter BES
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Squy
Master Don Juan
You forgot to tell him to write poems about her, and sing those poems with a guitar each night outside her window.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
i sent a girl a poem once, she really liked it, i think it was a good move, but i only did it once, this was in my total AFC days but come ot think about it, doing it once seems to be good, obviously on a regular basis it would be bad but as a one off as a romantic thing it is good!
Nightbreed
Don Juan
And lest we forget, carry Red Bull with you at all times.
After all to bore a girl into being attracted to you means you must keep waking her up, but hey keep going with the lurve and caffeine, soon she will realise HOW SHE REALLY FEELS!
Bloated.
After all to bore a girl into being attracted to you means you must keep waking her up, but hey keep going with the lurve and caffeine, soon she will realise HOW SHE REALLY FEELS!
Bloated.
TooColdUlrick
Master Don Juan
BES, some people here are messing with you, if you haven't guessed already. it's almost a joke.
everyone else is giving you the worst possible advice.
it is very clear that you are obessed with this chick. any further interacation with her will make you even MORE obsessed. you very obviously have ZERO experience with chicks. any advice that you take here, i guarantee will blow up in your face.
she is your co-worker. when you screw this up royally, you have your job to think about.
as per usual...go to the Bible, and get started.
everyone else is giving you the worst possible advice.
it is very clear that you are obessed with this chick. any further interacation with her will make you even MORE obsessed. you very obviously have ZERO experience with chicks. any advice that you take here, i guarantee will blow up in your face.
she is your co-worker. when you screw this up royally, you have your job to think about.
as per usual...go to the Bible, and get started.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
-HPNOTIQ-
Master Don Juan
Its good to see that there are still people on this board with CHARACTER.