"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I Want More Women..
- Thread starter matygee
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
spider_007
Master Don Juan
MLTR^3 = A further enhancement of MLTR2/MLTR^2 where the goal is to utilize 1 or more bisexual Primary chicks in your "harem" of LTRs in order to garner sex with at least 3 women at the same time. Not necessarily through tandem hunting but of accumulating connections with multiple women who've been pre-screened for bisexuality and then coordinating meets with your Primary(ies) so that you end up with 3 or more girls. Could also be just simply having MLTR where you regularly **** at least 3 chicks at the same time from the "harem" regularly.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Essentially the situation you want is to have a nice relationship with the first girl and just call the other ones up to **** whenever you feel like a change. You want your cake and you want to eat it too. I've been there and done that when I was younger. And yes, it is very easily done. Have sex with other girls, guard your cell phone/email/instant messenger with your life, and perpetually spit bull **** at the girl that you care about enough to call your "main chick". Or you could de-stress and think about the situation for a minute.
What do you want? The answer apparently is sex with a lot of girls. What is the obstacle? In your mind, the obstacle to this is having a girlfriend. Simple solution? Eliminate your girlfriend as an obstacle by either breaking up with her, going on a break, or simply being honest with her about why you want to have sex with other girls. If you want to have sex with other girls and plan on actively pursuing it, what is the point of lying to yourself and other people that you care about by being in a committed relationship?
I am willing to say that you are probably 16-19 years old, with your main girl falling into the same age group. You guys are probably each others first "serious" boyfriend and girlfriend. What are the chances you are going to marry this girl? Not very good, so what is the point in making yourself unhappy by denying yourself the freedom to chase other skirts and making her unhappy by your dilly-dallying? The clear answer is that there is no reason for this. Adopt honesty as your main policy and a lot of the headaches that surround women will disappear.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Not quite without having a bunch of heartache. If you want to have one main chick, then have one and treat her appropriately. Otherwise stop having "relationships" and just start dating/seeing multiple women.matygee said:I mean isn't there a way you can add another girl to your relationship and have like a four way ring of girls with one main chick?