Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I Want More Women..

matygee

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I'm in a relationship with one girl right now but honestly, I just want more girls...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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matygee

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I mean isn't there a way you can add another girl to your relationship and have like a four way ring of girls with one main chick?
 

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MLTR^3 = A further enhancement of MLTR2/MLTR^2 where the goal is to utilize 1 or more bisexual Primary chicks in your "harem" of LTRs in order to garner sex with at least 3 women at the same time. Not necessarily through tandem hunting but of accumulating connections with multiple women who've been pre-screened for bisexuality and then coordinating meets with your Primary(ies) so that you end up with 3 or more girls. Could also be just simply having MLTR where you regularly **** at least 3 chicks at the same time from the "harem" regularly.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yes, by being honest with your "main chick" about whats going on. Having sex with lots of other girls while you have a girlfriend does not make you the man, it makes you a liar.

Essentially the situation you want is to have a nice relationship with the first girl and just call the other ones up to **** whenever you feel like a change. You want your cake and you want to eat it too. I've been there and done that when I was younger. And yes, it is very easily done. Have sex with other girls, guard your cell phone/email/instant messenger with your life, and perpetually spit bull **** at the girl that you care about enough to call your "main chick". Or you could de-stress and think about the situation for a minute.

What do you want? The answer apparently is sex with a lot of girls. What is the obstacle? In your mind, the obstacle to this is having a girlfriend. Simple solution? Eliminate your girlfriend as an obstacle by either breaking up with her, going on a break, or simply being honest with her about why you want to have sex with other girls. If you want to have sex with other girls and plan on actively pursuing it, what is the point of lying to yourself and other people that you care about by being in a committed relationship?

I am willing to say that you are probably 16-19 years old, with your main girl falling into the same age group. You guys are probably each others first "serious" boyfriend and girlfriend. What are the chances you are going to marry this girl? Not very good, so what is the point in making yourself unhappy by denying yourself the freedom to chase other skirts and making her unhappy by your dilly-dallying? The clear answer is that there is no reason for this. Adopt honesty as your main policy and a lot of the headaches that surround women will disappear.
 

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matygee said:
I mean isn't there a way you can add another girl to your relationship and have like a four way ring of girls with one main chick?
Not quite without having a bunch of heartache. If you want to have one main chick, then have one and treat her appropriately. Otherwise stop having "relationships" and just start dating/seeing multiple women.
 
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