"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I Want More Women..
- Thread starter matygee
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
spider_007
Master Don Juan
MLTR^3 = A further enhancement of MLTR2/MLTR^2 where the goal is to utilize 1 or more bisexual Primary chicks in your "harem" of LTRs in order to garner sex with at least 3 women at the same time. Not necessarily through tandem hunting but of accumulating connections with multiple women who've been pre-screened for bisexuality and then coordinating meets with your Primary(ies) so that you end up with 3 or more girls. Could also be just simply having MLTR where you regularly **** at least 3 chicks at the same time from the "harem" regularly.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Essentially the situation you want is to have a nice relationship with the first girl and just call the other ones up to **** whenever you feel like a change. You want your cake and you want to eat it too. I've been there and done that when I was younger. And yes, it is very easily done. Have sex with other girls, guard your cell phone/email/instant messenger with your life, and perpetually spit bull **** at the girl that you care about enough to call your "main chick". Or you could de-stress and think about the situation for a minute.
What do you want? The answer apparently is sex with a lot of girls. What is the obstacle? In your mind, the obstacle to this is having a girlfriend. Simple solution? Eliminate your girlfriend as an obstacle by either breaking up with her, going on a break, or simply being honest with her about why you want to have sex with other girls. If you want to have sex with other girls and plan on actively pursuing it, what is the point of lying to yourself and other people that you care about by being in a committed relationship?
I am willing to say that you are probably 16-19 years old, with your main girl falling into the same age group. You guys are probably each others first "serious" boyfriend and girlfriend. What are the chances you are going to marry this girl? Not very good, so what is the point in making yourself unhappy by denying yourself the freedom to chase other skirts and making her unhappy by your dilly-dallying? The clear answer is that there is no reason for this. Adopt honesty as your main policy and a lot of the headaches that surround women will disappear.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Not quite without having a bunch of heartache. If you want to have one main chick, then have one and treat her appropriately. Otherwise stop having "relationships" and just start dating/seeing multiple women.matygee said:I mean isn't there a way you can add another girl to your relationship and have like a four way ring of girls with one main chick?