That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The thing is that i have a GF,i only want one thing from this girl,and thats just sex.How do i tell her that?You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Well if you are willing to stoop so low as to cheat on your girlfriend, then I'm sure that keeping it from this girl that you only want her for sex isnt a problem for you. I mean... if you are a heartless b@stard to ONE girl, whats stopping you from being a heartless b@stard to 2 girls?
*sigh*
Laterz...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well as I have said before, all those guys that cheat should get SHOT in my opinion.Originally posted by cfajason
Hey i know a lot of guys who cheat on their girlfriends,and their relationship go very well, none of them are divorced or have broken up.I bet that a lot of guys here too cheat....You would do the same if you met a HB
... But I guess this world is f*cked up anyways, so no matter how much I stress that its wrong and shouldn’t be done, I guess people like you don’t really give a damn, so wateva, have fun doing what you do, I have NO respect for people like you.I already have a HB ready and willing to sex me till the rooster crows and then some.Originally posted by cfajason
Hey i know a lot of guys who cheat on their girlfriends,and their relationship go very well,none of them are divorced or have broken up.I bet that a lot of guys here too cheat....You would do the same if you met a HB
Variety?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
And every girl you get with is just going be perfectly faithful? Gimme a break. Most of the guys here wanna be 'players' if you haven't noticed......Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Well as I have said before, all those guys that cheat should get SHOT in my opinion.
And by the way, when I was in a relationship up until 2 months ago, I had MANY MANY opportunities to get with other women, but I told them all off. Cheating is one thing I am REALLY against and am disgusted that people would even consider doing it!
Laterz...
And none of those guys who cheat have real relationships...they are fakes who misrespresent themselves to women. Basically, they are liars, frauds, phonies and fakes. Believe me, when they get caught they won't have anything that works "well", they will be divorced and broken up, too. Cheaters ALWAYS get caught eventually.Originally posted by cfajason
Hey i know a lot of guys who cheat on their girlfriends,and their relationship go very well,none of them are divorced or have broken up.I bet that a lot of guys here too cheat....You would do the same if you met a HB
Well then if most of the guys are here support cheating, or would cheat, then I have no respect for them either, its as simple as that. And just to make a comment on that statement of yours, being a playa doesn’t have to mean CHEATING ON A GIRLFRIEND/WIFE.
And if all they want is to have sex with as many women as possible then they have NO BUSINESS being in a relationship. Anyone who does that is misleading a person, lying, pretending to be something they aren't and are a complete fraud and phony.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No.... because the chances o that happening are firstly slim, and secondly, while u are IN the relationship, you need to act accordingly.... If what you are saying is true, then i can go up to someone and kill him and defend myself saying that the guy could have killed ME the next day.... I wonder what the judge would do
... Incase ur still wondering, he would put ur ass in jail for the rest of your life. That's terrible bro, why is it that everyone else knew of her reputation but u didn't?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.