Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The thing is that i have a GF,i only want one thing from this girl,and thats just sex.How do i tell her that?Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Well if you are willing to stoop so low as to cheat on your girlfriend, then I'm sure that keeping it from this girl that you only want her for sex isnt a problem for you. I mean... if you are a heartless b@stard to ONE girl, whats stopping you from being a heartless b@stard to 2 girls?
*sigh*
Laterz...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Well as I have said before, all those guys that cheat should get SHOT in my opinion.Originally posted by cfajason
Hey i know a lot of guys who cheat on their girlfriends,and their relationship go very well, none of them are divorced or have broken up.I bet that a lot of guys here too cheat....You would do the same if you met a HB
... But I guess this world is f*cked up anyways, so no matter how much I stress that its wrong and shouldn’t be done, I guess people like you don’t really give a damn, so wateva, have fun doing what you do, I have NO respect for people like you.I already have a HB ready and willing to sex me till the rooster crows and then some.Originally posted by cfajason
Hey i know a lot of guys who cheat on their girlfriends,and their relationship go very well,none of them are divorced or have broken up.I bet that a lot of guys here too cheat....You would do the same if you met a HB
Variety?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
And every girl you get with is just going be perfectly faithful? Gimme a break. Most of the guys here wanna be 'players' if you haven't noticed......Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Well as I have said before, all those guys that cheat should get SHOT in my opinion.
And by the way, when I was in a relationship up until 2 months ago, I had MANY MANY opportunities to get with other women, but I told them all off. Cheating is one thing I am REALLY against and am disgusted that people would even consider doing it!
Laterz...
And none of those guys who cheat have real relationships...they are fakes who misrespresent themselves to women. Basically, they are liars, frauds, phonies and fakes. Believe me, when they get caught they won't have anything that works "well", they will be divorced and broken up, too. Cheaters ALWAYS get caught eventually.Originally posted by cfajason
Hey i know a lot of guys who cheat on their girlfriends,and their relationship go very well,none of them are divorced or have broken up.I bet that a lot of guys here too cheat....You would do the same if you met a HB
Well then if most of the guys are here support cheating, or would cheat, then I have no respect for them either, its as simple as that. And just to make a comment on that statement of yours, being a playa doesn’t have to mean CHEATING ON A GIRLFRIEND/WIFE.
And if all they want is to have sex with as many women as possible then they have NO BUSINESS being in a relationship. Anyone who does that is misleading a person, lying, pretending to be something they aren't and are a complete fraud and phony.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No.... because the chances o that happening are firstly slim, and secondly, while u are IN the relationship, you need to act accordingly.... If what you are saying is true, then i can go up to someone and kill him and defend myself saying that the guy could have killed ME the next day.... I wonder what the judge would do
... Incase ur still wondering, he would put ur ass in jail for the rest of your life. That's terrible bro, why is it that everyone else knew of her reputation but u didn't?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.