Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The thing is that i have a GF,i only want one thing from this girl,and thats just sex.How do i tell her that?You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Well if you are willing to stoop so low as to cheat on your girlfriend, then I'm sure that keeping it from this girl that you only want her for sex isnt a problem for you. I mean... if you are a heartless b@stard to ONE girl, whats stopping you from being a heartless b@stard to 2 girls?
*sigh*
Laterz...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Well as I have said before, all those guys that cheat should get SHOT in my opinion.Originally posted by cfajason
Hey i know a lot of guys who cheat on their girlfriends,and their relationship go very well, none of them are divorced or have broken up.I bet that a lot of guys here too cheat....You would do the same if you met a HB
... But I guess this world is f*cked up anyways, so no matter how much I stress that its wrong and shouldn’t be done, I guess people like you don’t really give a damn, so wateva, have fun doing what you do, I have NO respect for people like you.I already have a HB ready and willing to sex me till the rooster crows and then some.Originally posted by cfajason
Hey i know a lot of guys who cheat on their girlfriends,and their relationship go very well,none of them are divorced or have broken up.I bet that a lot of guys here too cheat....You would do the same if you met a HB
Variety?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
And every girl you get with is just going be perfectly faithful? Gimme a break. Most of the guys here wanna be 'players' if you haven't noticed......Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Well as I have said before, all those guys that cheat should get SHOT in my opinion.
And by the way, when I was in a relationship up until 2 months ago, I had MANY MANY opportunities to get with other women, but I told them all off. Cheating is one thing I am REALLY against and am disgusted that people would even consider doing it!
Laterz...
And none of those guys who cheat have real relationships...they are fakes who misrespresent themselves to women. Basically, they are liars, frauds, phonies and fakes. Believe me, when they get caught they won't have anything that works "well", they will be divorced and broken up, too. Cheaters ALWAYS get caught eventually.Originally posted by cfajason
Hey i know a lot of guys who cheat on their girlfriends,and their relationship go very well,none of them are divorced or have broken up.I bet that a lot of guys here too cheat....You would do the same if you met a HB
Well then if most of the guys are here support cheating, or would cheat, then I have no respect for them either, its as simple as that. And just to make a comment on that statement of yours, being a playa doesn’t have to mean CHEATING ON A GIRLFRIEND/WIFE.
And if all they want is to have sex with as many women as possible then they have NO BUSINESS being in a relationship. Anyone who does that is misleading a person, lying, pretending to be something they aren't and are a complete fraud and phony.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
No.... because the chances o that happening are firstly slim, and secondly, while u are IN the relationship, you need to act accordingly.... If what you are saying is true, then i can go up to someone and kill him and defend myself saying that the guy could have killed ME the next day.... I wonder what the judge would do
... Incase ur still wondering, he would put ur ass in jail for the rest of your life. That's terrible bro, why is it that everyone else knew of her reputation but u didn't?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.