I don't agree that she's fat but her hips (and probably ass) are way too big to be attractive.Nutz said:Fat. Those hips, and I bet her ass, are HUGE.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't agree that she's fat but her hips (and probably ass) are way too big to be attractive.Nutz said:Fat. Those hips, and I bet her ass, are HUGE.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Question... how is flabby hips and a huge ass not considered fat? That girl most likely has rolls, you just can't see them in that pic.Kal0051 said:I don't agree that she's fat but her hips (and probably ass) are way too big to be attractive.
As long as you are having fun, then that is all that matters.HolyTrinity said:i'll take all types of girls . fat, skinny, young, old![]()
well, it's hard to tell from that pic, it's not the best pic (obviously made to make her look better than she probably is).Nutz said:Question... how is flabby hips and a huge ass not considered fat? That girl most likely has rolls, you just can't see them in that pic.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Solomon said:My question to Warrior, Cola, Pimp and the rest of the guys on this thread....
http://www.0x28.net/pict/101784_85_2.jpg
^^is this chick "thick" to you or "fat"
Some people think she is fat, some think she is thick, personally I think she is thick but that's me
Too thick for my taste but I would still sex her.Solomon said:My question to Warrior, Cola, Pimp and the rest of the guys on this thread....
http://www.0x28.net/pict/101784_85_2.jpg
^^is this chick "thick" to you or "fat"
Some people think she is fat, some think she is thick, personally I think she is thick but that's me
Duffdog said:This thick/thin/fat debate is really dependent on the society you live in. In some societal stratifications, different female appearances are more desirable than others and do not cross correlate well.
I read some masters thesis about it a while back and it basically goes like this:
In the U.S., men prefer different upper thigh circumferences depending on race and income level. While a white, upper class male prefers women with thigh diameters less than 19", Black upper class males prefer their females thighs to be between 20-26". This applies to latin men as well. From that base point, the desired thigh circumference increases as the income of the male decreases. Once it hits the poverty line, the upper thigh circumference skyrockets into "obese" and these men just begin to take whatever whale walks down the street. However, low income black and latino males do NOT like women with thigh circumferences below 20", even though one would tend to think that they would simply because it is something that high income males have traditionally preferred.
Solomon, I wouldn't touch that chic. She is WAAAAAAAY too fat for me. Needs to lose about 50lbs, then well talk.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Is this your scientific discovery?DonGorgon said:Dating fatties is an indicator of male depression and hopelessness... eventually they will start rejecting you also and that is when most men experiment with gayness..
iqqi said:Is this your scientific discovery?![]()
In many an ancient day, thick and even fat women, were considered fertile and therefor sexier than thinner "bony" women. Even today, there are cultures that feel this way. On a further tangent, there are people who send their young girls away to "fat camps", to be fattened up... so that they will be desirable for marriage and sex!! I know... crazy, right?
Broaden your mind. Our way is not the only way, your way is not THE way.
Who are we as one culture to say what another culture should find appealing, and why. And who are you as one person to say what another person should be interested and attracted to? Isn't that unmanly to be preoccupied and judgmental of another man's object of desire?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Would do the first girl if a bar pull and I had a few. Decent enough because she's still fairly cute. Brooke on the other hand has the body type I prefer most, namely you can see a hint of abs. Not body builder freakazoid abs, but sexy abs you have no problem getting a body shot fromCr1msonKing said:I wouldn't really think twice about beating that **** up.
Thats not bad. Sure they need to lose a few pounds but I'm talking about fvcking them, not judging their bodies.
http://www.curvygirlclothing.com/PR...tattoo_tank_ghetto_fabulous_editorial_360.jpg
Another inbetween girl, but she's cute, not exactly fat, and I wouldn't think about hitting it.
She's cute, and she's not obese, I can stand a bit of fat. But then again I said no fatties, it really depends on how I'm gonna get my nut on that night and what she looks like naked.
I like em supple, between THICK and skinny.
I use kelley brookes body a lot, but man, she's got a nice fvcking body.
http://lh5.ggpht.com/stojanoskislave/RyIyJhHw1KI/AAAAAAAAAu4/eb26Gbp9pzY/kelly-brook-uhq-013.jpg
iqqi said:Is this your scientific discovery?![]()
In many an ancient day, thick and even fat women, were considered fertile and therefor sexier than thinner "bony" women. Even today, there are cultures that feel this way. On a further tangent, there are people who send their young girls away to "fat camps", to be fattened up... so that they will be desirable for marriage and sex!! I know... crazy, right?
Broaden your mind. Our way is not the only way, your way is not THE way.
Who are we as one culture to say what another culture should find appealing, and why. And who are you as one person to say what another person should be interested and attracted to? Isn't that unmanly to be preoccupied and judgmental of another man's object of desire?