I don't agree that she's fat but her hips (and probably ass) are way too big to be attractive.Nutz said:Fat. Those hips, and I bet her ass, are HUGE.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I don't agree that she's fat but her hips (and probably ass) are way too big to be attractive.Nutz said:Fat. Those hips, and I bet her ass, are HUGE.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Question... how is flabby hips and a huge ass not considered fat? That girl most likely has rolls, you just can't see them in that pic.Kal0051 said:I don't agree that she's fat but her hips (and probably ass) are way too big to be attractive.
As long as you are having fun, then that is all that matters.HolyTrinity said:i'll take all types of girls . fat, skinny, young, old![]()
well, it's hard to tell from that pic, it's not the best pic (obviously made to make her look better than she probably is).Nutz said:Question... how is flabby hips and a huge ass not considered fat? That girl most likely has rolls, you just can't see them in that pic.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Solomon said:My question to Warrior, Cola, Pimp and the rest of the guys on this thread....
http://www.0x28.net/pict/101784_85_2.jpg
^^is this chick "thick" to you or "fat"
Some people think she is fat, some think she is thick, personally I think she is thick but that's me
Too thick for my taste but I would still sex her.Solomon said:My question to Warrior, Cola, Pimp and the rest of the guys on this thread....
http://www.0x28.net/pict/101784_85_2.jpg
^^is this chick "thick" to you or "fat"
Some people think she is fat, some think she is thick, personally I think she is thick but that's me
Duffdog said:This thick/thin/fat debate is really dependent on the society you live in. In some societal stratifications, different female appearances are more desirable than others and do not cross correlate well.
I read some masters thesis about it a while back and it basically goes like this:
In the U.S., men prefer different upper thigh circumferences depending on race and income level. While a white, upper class male prefers women with thigh diameters less than 19", Black upper class males prefer their females thighs to be between 20-26". This applies to latin men as well. From that base point, the desired thigh circumference increases as the income of the male decreases. Once it hits the poverty line, the upper thigh circumference skyrockets into "obese" and these men just begin to take whatever whale walks down the street. However, low income black and latino males do NOT like women with thigh circumferences below 20", even though one would tend to think that they would simply because it is something that high income males have traditionally preferred.
Solomon, I wouldn't touch that chic. She is WAAAAAAAY too fat for me. Needs to lose about 50lbs, then well talk.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Is this your scientific discovery?DonGorgon said:Dating fatties is an indicator of male depression and hopelessness... eventually they will start rejecting you also and that is when most men experiment with gayness..
iqqi said:Is this your scientific discovery?![]()
In many an ancient day, thick and even fat women, were considered fertile and therefor sexier than thinner "bony" women. Even today, there are cultures that feel this way. On a further tangent, there are people who send their young girls away to "fat camps", to be fattened up... so that they will be desirable for marriage and sex!! I know... crazy, right?
Broaden your mind. Our way is not the only way, your way is not THE way.
Who are we as one culture to say what another culture should find appealing, and why. And who are you as one person to say what another person should be interested and attracted to? Isn't that unmanly to be preoccupied and judgmental of another man's object of desire?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Would do the first girl if a bar pull and I had a few. Decent enough because she's still fairly cute. Brooke on the other hand has the body type I prefer most, namely you can see a hint of abs. Not body builder freakazoid abs, but sexy abs you have no problem getting a body shot fromCr1msonKing said:I wouldn't really think twice about beating that **** up.
Thats not bad. Sure they need to lose a few pounds but I'm talking about fvcking them, not judging their bodies.
http://www.curvygirlclothing.com/PR...tattoo_tank_ghetto_fabulous_editorial_360.jpg
Another inbetween girl, but she's cute, not exactly fat, and I wouldn't think about hitting it.
She's cute, and she's not obese, I can stand a bit of fat. But then again I said no fatties, it really depends on how I'm gonna get my nut on that night and what she looks like naked.
I like em supple, between THICK and skinny.
I use kelley brookes body a lot, but man, she's got a nice fvcking body.
http://lh5.ggpht.com/stojanoskislave/RyIyJhHw1KI/AAAAAAAAAu4/eb26Gbp9pzY/kelly-brook-uhq-013.jpg
iqqi said:Is this your scientific discovery?![]()
In many an ancient day, thick and even fat women, were considered fertile and therefor sexier than thinner "bony" women. Even today, there are cultures that feel this way. On a further tangent, there are people who send their young girls away to "fat camps", to be fattened up... so that they will be desirable for marriage and sex!! I know... crazy, right?
Broaden your mind. Our way is not the only way, your way is not THE way.
Who are we as one culture to say what another culture should find appealing, and why. And who are you as one person to say what another person should be interested and attracted to? Isn't that unmanly to be preoccupied and judgmental of another man's object of desire?