I don't agree that she's fat but her hips (and probably ass) are way too big to be attractive.Nutz said:Fat. Those hips, and I bet her ass, are HUGE.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I don't agree that she's fat but her hips (and probably ass) are way too big to be attractive.Nutz said:Fat. Those hips, and I bet her ass, are HUGE.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Question... how is flabby hips and a huge ass not considered fat? That girl most likely has rolls, you just can't see them in that pic.Kal0051 said:I don't agree that she's fat but her hips (and probably ass) are way too big to be attractive.
As long as you are having fun, then that is all that matters.HolyTrinity said:i'll take all types of girls . fat, skinny, young, old![]()
well, it's hard to tell from that pic, it's not the best pic (obviously made to make her look better than she probably is).Nutz said:Question... how is flabby hips and a huge ass not considered fat? That girl most likely has rolls, you just can't see them in that pic.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Solomon said:My question to Warrior, Cola, Pimp and the rest of the guys on this thread....
http://www.0x28.net/pict/101784_85_2.jpg
^^is this chick "thick" to you or "fat"
Some people think she is fat, some think she is thick, personally I think she is thick but that's me
Too thick for my taste but I would still sex her.Solomon said:My question to Warrior, Cola, Pimp and the rest of the guys on this thread....
http://www.0x28.net/pict/101784_85_2.jpg
^^is this chick "thick" to you or "fat"
Some people think she is fat, some think she is thick, personally I think she is thick but that's me
Duffdog said:This thick/thin/fat debate is really dependent on the society you live in. In some societal stratifications, different female appearances are more desirable than others and do not cross correlate well.
I read some masters thesis about it a while back and it basically goes like this:
In the U.S., men prefer different upper thigh circumferences depending on race and income level. While a white, upper class male prefers women with thigh diameters less than 19", Black upper class males prefer their females thighs to be between 20-26". This applies to latin men as well. From that base point, the desired thigh circumference increases as the income of the male decreases. Once it hits the poverty line, the upper thigh circumference skyrockets into "obese" and these men just begin to take whatever whale walks down the street. However, low income black and latino males do NOT like women with thigh circumferences below 20", even though one would tend to think that they would simply because it is something that high income males have traditionally preferred.
Solomon, I wouldn't touch that chic. She is WAAAAAAAY too fat for me. Needs to lose about 50lbs, then well talk.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Is this your scientific discovery?DonGorgon said:Dating fatties is an indicator of male depression and hopelessness... eventually they will start rejecting you also and that is when most men experiment with gayness..
iqqi said:Is this your scientific discovery?![]()
In many an ancient day, thick and even fat women, were considered fertile and therefor sexier than thinner "bony" women. Even today, there are cultures that feel this way. On a further tangent, there are people who send their young girls away to "fat camps", to be fattened up... so that they will be desirable for marriage and sex!! I know... crazy, right?
Broaden your mind. Our way is not the only way, your way is not THE way.
Who are we as one culture to say what another culture should find appealing, and why. And who are you as one person to say what another person should be interested and attracted to? Isn't that unmanly to be preoccupied and judgmental of another man's object of desire?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Would do the first girl if a bar pull and I had a few. Decent enough because she's still fairly cute. Brooke on the other hand has the body type I prefer most, namely you can see a hint of abs. Not body builder freakazoid abs, but sexy abs you have no problem getting a body shot fromCr1msonKing said:I wouldn't really think twice about beating that **** up.
Thats not bad. Sure they need to lose a few pounds but I'm talking about fvcking them, not judging their bodies.
http://www.curvygirlclothing.com/PR...tattoo_tank_ghetto_fabulous_editorial_360.jpg
Another inbetween girl, but she's cute, not exactly fat, and I wouldn't think about hitting it.
She's cute, and she's not obese, I can stand a bit of fat. But then again I said no fatties, it really depends on how I'm gonna get my nut on that night and what she looks like naked.
I like em supple, between THICK and skinny.
I use kelley brookes body a lot, but man, she's got a nice fvcking body.
http://lh5.ggpht.com/stojanoskislave/RyIyJhHw1KI/AAAAAAAAAu4/eb26Gbp9pzY/kelly-brook-uhq-013.jpg
iqqi said:Is this your scientific discovery?![]()
In many an ancient day, thick and even fat women, were considered fertile and therefor sexier than thinner "bony" women. Even today, there are cultures that feel this way. On a further tangent, there are people who send their young girls away to "fat camps", to be fattened up... so that they will be desirable for marriage and sex!! I know... crazy, right?
Broaden your mind. Our way is not the only way, your way is not THE way.
Who are we as one culture to say what another culture should find appealing, and why. And who are you as one person to say what another person should be interested and attracted to? Isn't that unmanly to be preoccupied and judgmental of another man's object of desire?