spider_007
Master Don Juan
is it me or do you all like getting slaped. Ask your selfs why you didn't do it? What you are afraid of? and then work on it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I want everybody here to SLAP ME!
- Thread starter Sasha
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Exactly!
Dont get it into your head you have to be picking up every time you go out, otherwise this will become your outlook every single time you go out, and it will ruin the fun! It is better to enjoy your night, than to pick up IMHO. I got into a bad routine with my friends, where we just went out picking up all the time, and after nearly a year, we realised we had lost the entire point of going out! We had sex, we had numbers, we had dates, but we were still out picking up randoms all the time and not actually enjoying the music and the environment!