spider_007
Master Don Juan
is it me or do you all like getting slaped. Ask your selfs why you didn't do it? What you are afraid of? and then work on it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I want everybody here to SLAP ME!
- Thread starter Sasha
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Exactly!
Dont get it into your head you have to be picking up every time you go out, otherwise this will become your outlook every single time you go out, and it will ruin the fun! It is better to enjoy your night, than to pick up IMHO. I got into a bad routine with my friends, where we just went out picking up all the time, and after nearly a year, we realised we had lost the entire point of going out! We had sex, we had numbers, we had dates, but we were still out picking up randoms all the time and not actually enjoying the music and the environment!