"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I wanna fvckkkk this girl sooo bad

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But she won't do anything unless we're dating. And I don't want a girlfriend right now. She's really attractive, but I just like my freedom. We like made out and stuff, slept in the same bed, and she was like wrapping her legs around me but when I went in for it she likes. I would only do that if we're dating. It kinda sucks. But she wants to hang out again this weekend. I'm not sure if I should try again or not. I think it might happen this time, something tells me. But there's also the possibility that it wont happen, and I don't want to offend her by trying. Crap.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Scars said:
But she won't do anything unless we're dating. And I don't want a girlfriend right now. She's really attractive, but I just like my freedom. We like made out and stuff, slept in the same bed, and she was like wrapping her legs around me but when I went in for it she likes. I would only do that if we're dating. It kinda sucks. But she wants to hang out again this weekend. I'm not sure if I should try again or not. I think it might happen this time, something tells me. But there's also the possibility that it wont happen, and I don't want to offend her by trying. Crap.
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Hold up, she wrapped her legs around you...while you both were sleeping in the same bed? And wait let me get this straight, you two didn't have sex? Lol well thats just about as close as your gonna get. :crackup:
 
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Keep teasing her sexually, and make the barrier hers. Tell her what you want to do to her in some detail (when the moment's right of course), then say something like "but I know we can't as we're not dating."

Or learn the art of a good freeze out. It should never come across as sulking or anger, just that you've abruptly lost interest, like the moment's been killed but you're a big enough man to take it into your stride.

You might need to persist with these a few times, and be sure to mix them up a bit.

Happy days!
 
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Scars said:
But she won't do anything unless we're dating. And I don't want a girlfriend right now. She's really attractive, but I just like my freedom. We like made out and stuff, slept in the same bed, and she was like wrapping her legs around me but when I went in for it she likes. I would only do that if we're dating. It kinda sucks. But she wants to hang out again this weekend. I'm not sure if I should try again or not. I think it might happen this time, something tells me. But there's also the possibility that it wont happen, and I don't want to offend her by trying. Crap.
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Wait, so you're saying she will only sleep with you and let you inside her only if you are in a committed relationship so you won't dump her ass after you've done your thing? What a bvtch. You don't need her. Find a girl who's slept with 12 guys and will let you do your thing without any type of commitment.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Agree to it, then break up with her a few days later. You folks and your overdeveloped "moralities".

"I'm sorry, but I don't think this is going to work out between us. Bu-Bye!".
 
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Dude I've learned that its always better to say sorry than to take no action. If she doesnt like it then you can always say sorry, if she does then your all good. Whats there to lose? her friendship? na, and if she didn't wanna talk to you after that, do you really want to be a 'girlfriend' to her?
 
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