"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I wanna fvckkkk this girl sooo bad

Scars

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But she won't do anything unless we're dating. And I don't want a girlfriend right now. She's really attractive, but I just like my freedom. We like made out and stuff, slept in the same bed, and she was like wrapping her legs around me but when I went in for it she likes. I would only do that if we're dating. It kinda sucks. But she wants to hang out again this weekend. I'm not sure if I should try again or not. I think it might happen this time, something tells me. But there's also the possibility that it wont happen, and I don't want to offend her by trying. Crap.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Scars said:
But she won't do anything unless we're dating. And I don't want a girlfriend right now. She's really attractive, but I just like my freedom. We like made out and stuff, slept in the same bed, and she was like wrapping her legs around me but when I went in for it she likes. I would only do that if we're dating. It kinda sucks. But she wants to hang out again this weekend. I'm not sure if I should try again or not. I think it might happen this time, something tells me. But there's also the possibility that it wont happen, and I don't want to offend her by trying. Crap.

Hold up, she wrapped her legs around you...while you both were sleeping in the same bed? And wait let me get this straight, you two didn't have sex? Lol well thats just about as close as your gonna get. :crackup:
 

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Keep teasing her sexually, and make the barrier hers. Tell her what you want to do to her in some detail (when the moment's right of course), then say something like "but I know we can't as we're not dating."

Or learn the art of a good freeze out. It should never come across as sulking or anger, just that you've abruptly lost interest, like the moment's been killed but you're a big enough man to take it into your stride.

You might need to persist with these a few times, and be sure to mix them up a bit.

Happy days!
 

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Scars said:
But she won't do anything unless we're dating. And I don't want a girlfriend right now. She's really attractive, but I just like my freedom. We like made out and stuff, slept in the same bed, and she was like wrapping her legs around me but when I went in for it she likes. I would only do that if we're dating. It kinda sucks. But she wants to hang out again this weekend. I'm not sure if I should try again or not. I think it might happen this time, something tells me. But there's also the possibility that it wont happen, and I don't want to offend her by trying. Crap.
Wait, so you're saying she will only sleep with you and let you inside her only if you are in a committed relationship so you won't dump her ass after you've done your thing? What a bvtch. You don't need her. Find a girl who's slept with 12 guys and will let you do your thing without any type of commitment.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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azanon

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Agree to it, then break up with her a few days later. You folks and your overdeveloped "moralities".

"I'm sorry, but I don't think this is going to work out between us. Bu-Bye!".
 

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Dude I've learned that its always better to say sorry than to take no action. If she doesnt like it then you can always say sorry, if she does then your all good. Whats there to lose? her friendship? na, and if she didn't wanna talk to you after that, do you really want to be a 'girlfriend' to her?
 
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