“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
i try to set up a date and she goes..
- Thread starter mrben117
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Whether she's saying truth or not, what she said is enough to drop all the interest on your part, and focus it on something else.. Even if she comes through later on.. Ideally you should have someone else later.. But if not, you should say you'd give it a thought.. Then call a date on your terms..
Leaving her alone, means, you are doing the coming back to her, not the other way around.. That is trully beta.. Don't do it.
Whatever NEXT means to you.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
do you suggest that i still talk to her? like i said, i don't just want to be friends with her. the friends zone is the most horrible thing imaginable.
LostAndConfused
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DJ1234
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From this it sounds like she might be honest, but I wouldn't just wait around for her so that when SHE's Ready she can hang out with you...but no counter offer like how about next week?mrben117 said:
I would really think about nexting her or going out with her on your terms and if she does that again, then i'd def. drop her...
ready123
Master Don Juan
wtf is up with guys nexting every damn girl who doesn't breathe in their direction, it's hella retarded. it just shows a lack of experience and that you're so scared of being hurt you think you gain something by blowing yourself out before the girl has even given you a reason to do so
you ever figure the girl might genuinely be busy? don't you have other priorities in your life? work, school, hobbies family, other friends?
take her on her word unless you see a pattern otherwise or she explicity tells you no. if she had zero interest in you, she didn't have to give you a reason or a timeframe
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ready123 said:
If girl is genuinely busy then she would have no problem making up to the guy.. Such as contacting him to set things up, instead of waiting for him to do that..
Nah, I don't think women are ever genuinely busy.. Not for me at least.. They can be genuinely busy for some beta guy, but when it comes to me I demand her to allocate time for me.. Otherwise she is screwing it up..
With YOUR mind set, she can never screw up.. Because you are always available.. Congratulations! You've ruined all the fun for a woman.. Now the only way she can enjoy you is by manipulating you, and making you wait for sex, if ever..
PlaysToWin
Don Juan
If 'next' means you are ruling out any chance of anything in the future with her then I disagree with 'next'. I think it's a little rash. If 'next' just means to spin other plates while keeping the doors open if she ever gets back in contact with concrete plans, then I agree with next.
Basically, leave her alone. If she comes calling back next week then by all means entertain any suggested plans that she makes. Just don't make any plans of your own until she makes a solid plan and follows through with it and you have a good time.
And in the meantime, spin a few other plates to make sure you're not sitting waiting on her slowly developing onitis.
ready123
Master Don Juan
it's not about looking unavailable and making her chase. it's about having enough social awareness that you don't act like a social retard. social retardation = blowing yourself out prematurely on some neutral sht and thinking it's cool because you're trying to maintain a strict alpha male image that only exists inside your head
quality women do not obey you, especially when they don't know you. that's common sense
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.