"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I tried a thing!

freshprince

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So last night my friend and i caught a bus together we saw this nice looking chick, between 1-10 i would rate her as a 7. I turned around and told her something like i regret not sitting in that seat since she was there (or something like that) my friend heard and told me that i could still go and sit next to the girl, i did not want to because i never tried hustling a chick in a bus before but if i backed down my friend would have thought i was a pvssy or something so i did it anyways. She was nervous and started blushing. I formed a conversation and then proceed to ask her basic questions. I soon found out she attended the same university as i did....go figure! later on in the conversation i asked for the digits since we were both going the same universities it seemed okay to me, she replied "I don't give my numbers out to stranger"____? in my mind i was like what the deuce! but i did not care anyways. I probably wasn't even going to call her if i got it. I reached my destination and got the hell out of the bus. When i did i saw like disappointment on my friends face.
I thought i did okay? did u guys think so?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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**** your friend man. I get the impression you just did that for him. You should have talked that girl because you wanted to get to know her, not because you were afraid of disapointing your friend; she probably picked up on this.
 

Darth_Qurashi

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wats wrong ? some girls dont give their numbers to strangers. its no big deal. not like its ur fault.

even if it was, u'll learn from experience, just keep trying!
 

The Experience

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Dude you asked for her number and got rejected = success.
Realize that everything you do to expand your comfort zone is a win.
 

AlexLefty

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^ agreed. now i just have to put that in practice ;o
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kenny Powers

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Weekend nights at my college the busses are always packed with drunk-ass kids and its freaking awesome. I actually got a girls # on the bus once. I texted her saying "hey this is _____ from the bus last night. Haha I'm not as sketchy as that sounds."

She didn't respond but it was still a win. How many guys can say they got a number on the freaking bus.

The drunk bus ride is a surprisingly great way to meet girls, especially when its really crowded because everyone is smooshed together and its so easy to casually strike up a conversation with girls. The environment is so positive and everyone is in a good mood and excited to go out and party.

I think this weekend I'll skip the parties and just stay on the bus lol :D
 

Yogibear

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You did fine dude. The goal is to just keep practicing talking to girls
 
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