"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I tried a thing!

freshprince

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So last night my friend and i caught a bus together we saw this nice looking chick, between 1-10 i would rate her as a 7. I turned around and told her something like i regret not sitting in that seat since she was there (or something like that) my friend heard and told me that i could still go and sit next to the girl, i did not want to because i never tried hustling a chick in a bus before but if i backed down my friend would have thought i was a pvssy or something so i did it anyways. She was nervous and started blushing. I formed a conversation and then proceed to ask her basic questions. I soon found out she attended the same university as i did....go figure! later on in the conversation i asked for the digits since we were both going the same universities it seemed okay to me, she replied "I don't give my numbers out to stranger"____? in my mind i was like what the deuce! but i did not care anyways. I probably wasn't even going to call her if i got it. I reached my destination and got the hell out of the bus. When i did i saw like disappointment on my friends face.
I thought i did okay? did u guys think so?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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**** your friend man. I get the impression you just did that for him. You should have talked that girl because you wanted to get to know her, not because you were afraid of disapointing your friend; she probably picked up on this.
 

Darth_Qurashi

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wats wrong ? some girls dont give their numbers to strangers. its no big deal. not like its ur fault.

even if it was, u'll learn from experience, just keep trying!
 

The Experience

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Dude you asked for her number and got rejected = success.
Realize that everything you do to expand your comfort zone is a win.
 

AlexLefty

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^ agreed. now i just have to put that in practice ;o
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kenny Powers

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Weekend nights at my college the busses are always packed with drunk-ass kids and its freaking awesome. I actually got a girls # on the bus once. I texted her saying "hey this is _____ from the bus last night. Haha I'm not as sketchy as that sounds."

She didn't respond but it was still a win. How many guys can say they got a number on the freaking bus.

The drunk bus ride is a surprisingly great way to meet girls, especially when its really crowded because everyone is smooshed together and its so easy to casually strike up a conversation with girls. The environment is so positive and everyone is in a good mood and excited to go out and party.

I think this weekend I'll skip the parties and just stay on the bus lol :D
 

Yogibear

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You did fine dude. The goal is to just keep practicing talking to girls
 
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