"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i totally ****ed up the chance

duffman360

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so i got to my bus stop and while waiting for the bus i pulled out my cell phone and started lookin for something. while i'm doing this i see a pair of jeens go write pass me. then i later look and it was the girl i was planing on talkin to but when i notice it was her it was to late. she was too far away and her friend wasn't with her. after that i was sayin to myself i just FCK up my chance to talk to her. BUT TOMORROW IS A NEW DAY I'LL TRY TO TALK TO HER!!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Akyu

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dont get so down on yourself, and you didn't really even **** up anyway. you missed an oppurtunity to talk to her, so what, its not like she matters that much. and if she does maybe you need to reassess things a bit.
 

duffman360

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only thing i have not seen any other good lookin girls from her school all girl school most girls from that school look ugly or unattractive
 

Akyu

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well in that case you might be justified... maybe meet people from other school though.
 

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Boo hoo. You missed one chance, approach her the next time you see her!
You almost make it sound like it's the end of the world or something since you did not start talking to her the first time you saw her. Take a deep breath and the next time you meet her, calmly approach her and go from there! Oneitis much? lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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duffman360 said:
only thing i have not seen any other good lookin girls from her school all girl school most girls from that school look ugly or unattractive
you don't see any other girls you like = oneitis

you gotta act man... or next if you can't do it.
 
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