"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i totally ****ed up the chance

duffman360

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so i got to my bus stop and while waiting for the bus i pulled out my cell phone and started lookin for something. while i'm doing this i see a pair of jeens go write pass me. then i later look and it was the girl i was planing on talkin to but when i notice it was her it was to late. she was too far away and her friend wasn't with her. after that i was sayin to myself i just FCK up my chance to talk to her. BUT TOMORROW IS A NEW DAY I'LL TRY TO TALK TO HER!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Akyu

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dont get so down on yourself, and you didn't really even **** up anyway. you missed an oppurtunity to talk to her, so what, its not like she matters that much. and if she does maybe you need to reassess things a bit.
 

duffman360

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only thing i have not seen any other good lookin girls from her school all girl school most girls from that school look ugly or unattractive
 

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well in that case you might be justified... maybe meet people from other school though.
 

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Boo hoo. You missed one chance, approach her the next time you see her!
You almost make it sound like it's the end of the world or something since you did not start talking to her the first time you saw her. Take a deep breath and the next time you meet her, calmly approach her and go from there! Oneitis much? lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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duffman360 said:
only thing i have not seen any other good lookin girls from her school all girl school most girls from that school look ugly or unattractive
you don't see any other girls you like = oneitis

you gotta act man... or next if you can't do it.
 
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