"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i totally ****ed up the chance

duffman360

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so i got to my bus stop and while waiting for the bus i pulled out my cell phone and started lookin for something. while i'm doing this i see a pair of jeens go write pass me. then i later look and it was the girl i was planing on talkin to but when i notice it was her it was to late. she was too far away and her friend wasn't with her. after that i was sayin to myself i just FCK up my chance to talk to her. BUT TOMORROW IS A NEW DAY I'LL TRY TO TALK TO HER!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Akyu

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dont get so down on yourself, and you didn't really even **** up anyway. you missed an oppurtunity to talk to her, so what, its not like she matters that much. and if she does maybe you need to reassess things a bit.
 

duffman360

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only thing i have not seen any other good lookin girls from her school all girl school most girls from that school look ugly or unattractive
 

Akyu

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well in that case you might be justified... maybe meet people from other school though.
 

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Boo hoo. You missed one chance, approach her the next time you see her!
You almost make it sound like it's the end of the world or something since you did not start talking to her the first time you saw her. Take a deep breath and the next time you meet her, calmly approach her and go from there! Oneitis much? lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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duffman360 said:
only thing i have not seen any other good lookin girls from her school all girl school most girls from that school look ugly or unattractive
you don't see any other girls you like = oneitis

you gotta act man... or next if you can't do it.
 
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