"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i totally ****ed up the chance

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so i got to my bus stop and while waiting for the bus i pulled out my cell phone and started lookin for something. while i'm doing this i see a pair of jeens go write pass me. then i later look and it was the girl i was planing on talkin to but when i notice it was her it was to late. she was too far away and her friend wasn't with her. after that i was sayin to myself i just FCK up my chance to talk to her. BUT TOMORROW IS A NEW DAY I'LL TRY TO TALK TO HER!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dont get so down on yourself, and you didn't really even **** up anyway. you missed an oppurtunity to talk to her, so what, its not like she matters that much. and if she does maybe you need to reassess things a bit.
 
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only thing i have not seen any other good lookin girls from her school all girl school most girls from that school look ugly or unattractive
 
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well in that case you might be justified... maybe meet people from other school though.
 
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Boo hoo. You missed one chance, approach her the next time you see her!
You almost make it sound like it's the end of the world or something since you did not start talking to her the first time you saw her. Take a deep breath and the next time you meet her, calmly approach her and go from there! Oneitis much? lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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duffman360 said:
only thing i have not seen any other good lookin girls from her school all girl school most girls from that school look ugly or unattractive
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you don't see any other girls you like = oneitis

you gotta act man... or next if you can't do it.
 
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