Pikachuthechosen
Don Juan
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I told my girl I cheated on her and ****ed two girls and she stayed with me anyway. I dunno why I told her I'm a little crazy. Is this DJing?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I told my girl I cheated on her
- Thread starter Pikachuthechosen
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Nope, it's just guilt issues. If you can't do the time, don't do the crime. One last thing, women may forgive you but they never forget. Now the fun will begin...
spider_007
Master Don Juan
I don't think your for reall, but if you are, judging from your other thread, she is staying with you because she is doing the same thing......you don't have a g/f, you have a fvck-buddy.Pikachuthechosen said:I told my girl I cheated on her and ****ed two girls and she stayed with me anyway.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Actually it may be a bit more effective to not imply exclusivity as opposed to admitting you're wh0ring around.flexion_ said:A DJ would make it clear that you would be seeing other women before you do it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
Good for you, man. Honesty is the best policy.
Actually, a true DJ would then get your girl and one of the other ones in bed at the same time.
Actually, a true DJ would then get your girl and one of the other ones in bed at the same time.