Pikachuthechosen
Don Juan
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I told my girl I cheated on her and ****ed two girls and she stayed with me anyway. I dunno why I told her I'm a little crazy. Is this DJing?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I told my girl I cheated on her
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Nope, it's just guilt issues. If you can't do the time, don't do the crime. One last thing, women may forgive you but they never forget. Now the fun will begin...
spider_007
Master Don Juan
I don't think your for reall, but if you are, judging from your other thread, she is staying with you because she is doing the same thing......you don't have a g/f, you have a fvck-buddy.Pikachuthechosen said:I told my girl I cheated on her and ****ed two girls and she stayed with me anyway.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Actually it may be a bit more effective to not imply exclusivity as opposed to admitting you're wh0ring around.flexion_ said:A DJ would make it clear that you would be seeing other women before you do it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
Good for you, man. Honesty is the best policy.
Actually, a true DJ would then get your girl and one of the other ones in bed at the same time.
Actually, a true DJ would then get your girl and one of the other ones in bed at the same time.