Pikachuthechosen
Don Juan
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I told my girl I cheated on her and ****ed two girls and she stayed with me anyway. I dunno why I told her I'm a little crazy. Is this DJing?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I told my girl I cheated on her
- Thread starter Pikachuthechosen
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Nope, it's just guilt issues. If you can't do the time, don't do the crime. One last thing, women may forgive you but they never forget. Now the fun will begin...
spider_007
Master Don Juan
I don't think your for reall, but if you are, judging from your other thread, she is staying with you because she is doing the same thing......you don't have a g/f, you have a fvck-buddy.Pikachuthechosen said:I told my girl I cheated on her and ****ed two girls and she stayed with me anyway.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Actually it may be a bit more effective to not imply exclusivity as opposed to admitting you're wh0ring around.flexion_ said:A DJ would make it clear that you would be seeing other women before you do it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
Good for you, man. Honesty is the best policy.
Actually, a true DJ would then get your girl and one of the other ones in bed at the same time.
Actually, a true DJ would then get your girl and one of the other ones in bed at the same time.