"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I told her she can ask me any question she wants...

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I've gone on a few casual dates with this girl and on the last date we went for dinner and then dessert at some lounge. At the lounge we decided to ask eachother 1 question that we don't know about the other person. Her question to me was..."when was your last relationship?". My answer was short & sweet..."last spring, we went our seperate ways".

My question is..what kind of test is this question from this girl? Do girls who only have good IL would ask this type of question? Whats your experience been like? I'm curious...

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I find the inquisition usually starts in the first date/ get together after you've nailed her for the first time.

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in this case..it didn't start until several dates after...maybe she's 'sh!t testing me'?
 
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Generally the inquistion comes when the girl feels a sense of emotional attachment.

Personally I would take her question as a sign that she is feeling you out, getting a sense of if she has the chance of a realtionship with you.

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so its part of the screening process..got it....any other feedback if its a positive sign? thanks guys
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She wants to know if you are damaged goods, basically whether you are on the rebound.
 
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