"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I told her she can ask me any question she wants...

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I've gone on a few casual dates with this girl and on the last date we went for dinner and then dessert at some lounge. At the lounge we decided to ask eachother 1 question that we don't know about the other person. Her question to me was..."when was your last relationship?". My answer was short & sweet..."last spring, we went our seperate ways".

My question is..what kind of test is this question from this girl? Do girls who only have good IL would ask this type of question? Whats your experience been like? I'm curious...

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I find the inquisition usually starts in the first date/ get together after you've nailed her for the first time.

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in this case..it didn't start until several dates after...maybe she's 'sh!t testing me'?
 
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Generally the inquistion comes when the girl feels a sense of emotional attachment.

Personally I would take her question as a sign that she is feeling you out, getting a sense of if she has the chance of a realtionship with you.

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so its part of the screening process..got it....any other feedback if its a positive sign? thanks guys
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She wants to know if you are damaged goods, basically whether you are on the rebound.
 
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