"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I told her she can ask me any question she wants...

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I've gone on a few casual dates with this girl and on the last date we went for dinner and then dessert at some lounge. At the lounge we decided to ask eachother 1 question that we don't know about the other person. Her question to me was..."when was your last relationship?". My answer was short & sweet..."last spring, we went our seperate ways".

My question is..what kind of test is this question from this girl? Do girls who only have good IL would ask this type of question? Whats your experience been like? I'm curious...

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I find the inquisition usually starts in the first date/ get together after you've nailed her for the first time.

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in this case..it didn't start until several dates after...maybe she's 'sh!t testing me'?
 
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Generally the inquistion comes when the girl feels a sense of emotional attachment.

Personally I would take her question as a sign that she is feeling you out, getting a sense of if she has the chance of a realtionship with you.

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so its part of the screening process..got it....any other feedback if its a positive sign? thanks guys
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She wants to know if you are damaged goods, basically whether you are on the rebound.
 
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