Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
Well technically it was her answering machine.
Restraining order narrowly averted!
Restraining order narrowly averted!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I told a girl I love her
- Thread starter Jack McCrack
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
I can think of better ways.
Like presenting her with a giant dildo and my buttcrack.
Like presenting her with a giant dildo and my buttcrack.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
nice blow'n it
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
aww crap my covers blown dudes what do i do
i've got a blanket and some duct tape
i've got a blanket and some duct tape
Jack McCrack said:
so down there bro. you dont love her yet, you just like her. love is a feeling that develops over time and is more serious than liking. when you love someone, you would do anything for them, sacrififice yourself for them. and if your fretting about telling her you love her, then you really dont. cuz if u loved her you wouldnt be ashamed of saying it, because you mean it.
but just from saying it, your not in deep doody yet. jus keep doing wat u do. from the way you said it in the post, doesnt sound like u were pouring your heart out to her, so u should be fine (unless u did, then she might be freaked out abit) if she asks about it, jus play it cool and dont acknowledge it too much. act like it was nothing. but jus keep doing wat u were doing before, and u should be fine. and dont day the "L" word, until u really mean it. which could be a long time.
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
i owe you a beer my friend
*high five*
*high five*
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
I love you brother!
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
i love everyone in this topic
hugs all around
hugs all around
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The_Unit
Don Juan
don't freak out. The situation is not hopeless. I know there are tons of "rules" on this forum like "don't ever say I love you to a girl" and " dont let her know how you feel" and crap like that. The truth is there are no rules in love, there are only guidelines (if there rules, everyone would be a DJ and there wouldn't be a need for this site). And guidelines do not work in every situation. If you feel like saying "I love you" to her, then do it, and dont think back.
wjh
Master Don Juan
It depends on the context of your "relationship"/friendship/whatever.
If you meant it... and she was someone you would consider an LTR with, who cares?
Even if it was a little too early to really say it, it's not like you told her she was a *** burping sl_t.
Just smile if she brings it up and laugh... But if she senses weakness you'll look like an idiot.
If you meant it... and she was someone you would consider an LTR with, who cares?
Even if it was a little too early to really say it, it's not like you told her she was a *** burping sl_t.
Just smile if she brings it up and laugh... But if she senses weakness you'll look like an idiot.
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
*thumbs up*
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
good form old chap
i'll have to persuade her into bed with me
and then tell her
i'll have to persuade her into bed with me
and then tell her
The_Unit
Don Juan
Jack McCrack said:
dont use persuasion or cheap tactics. No smokescreens, no bull****. unless your a player, of course A lot of the "advice" on sosuave.com is crap. And remember, just because she doesn't say it back right away, doesnt mean she doesnt love you. It takes a different time for everyone, thats all.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I also have to agree that just making the statement itself is not necessarily a problem. I agree, if you really do love someone, then its ok to say it. Just one sentence isn't going to give you the ole AFC brand on your ass; its going to be the way you behave most all of the other time. For instance, it is more than possible (people do it every day) to be confident, not supplicate, and act in a patient and DJ way yet tell someone you love that you love them.
So.... just worry about the way you're behaving most of the time. Does this mean you're going to act needy now, for instance? If not, then don't sweat it. One sentence didn't screw you. I hope at least half the guys who did say you were screwed were just joking around.
So.... just worry about the way you're behaving most of the time. Does this mean you're going to act needy now, for instance? If not, then don't sweat it. One sentence didn't screw you. I hope at least half the guys who did say you were screwed were just joking around.
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
Does chloroform count?The_Unit said: