"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I Threw Her A Kiss

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I often shop this one store and notice this one babe that works there..So many times when I am in there checking out I will see her at a distance giving me eye contact prolonged eye contact that is... this has gone on a few months now and I know I should approach but I am in no hurry.

It's like I can be staying in line at the check out and I will look over her way and it's like she has radar or something and will stop doing what she is doing and zero in on me for what seems like 5 seconds which is in this context a bit of time..

This last time feeling like a ****y suave mother ****er I threw her a kiss as I was leaving and wonder after hindsight how this will go over with her and if it was a mistake. Not that this matters and I will be heart broken and cry a river since I am seeing two other women that are babes.

I guess my confidence the past few months has gone out the roof something I have not felt in a long time and I think I am the sh*t throwing her a kiss like that then again maybe I am;) nothing wrong with thinking positive.

I felt like doing something completly different shock treatment plus this is the lady who gave me the cold shoulder where she gave me complete silence after I asked her out. When she did that I walked away and never looked back this was 3 years ago on April 7th at 1:30 pm 32 seconds it was a sunny day and breezy like spring is suppose to be and I was feeling like a stud muffin she was wearing a blue blouse with jeans OK just kiddng.

I wonder if she has a change of heart or whats going on in her head with her giving me prolonged eye contact which is a sign of interest I know which was the same thing she did 3 years ago..AW comes to mind but I could be wrong. I am more muscular then I was 3 years ago and really wonder if she even remembers me asking her out.

Whats you take?

LoneSilver
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ask her out again. All she can do is say no again. Obviously it didn't have a lasting negative effect on your self-confidence the first time.
 
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I think you have utterly failed with this girl......

And this is my proof:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=147782

There is no Fvcking way that these two posts are just a mere coincidence!

Especially, since they were posted on the same fvcking day!!! LMAO :crackup:
 
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considering the post that this is now linked to, were you likereally bored and decided to make another user account on here?? considering the join date of the post by the maker of the other post....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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so whatd she do after you threw the kiss? Approach her and be more aggressive.
 
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Option 1: Forget about her.
Option 2: Approach her and actually say a few words.
 
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Not really related specifically to this thread, but to daygameguy
 -----> I wanted to know a bit more about what exactly your signature is suppose to mean? Please enlighten me..... :up:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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