"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I Threw Her A Kiss

LoneSilver

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I often shop this one store and notice this one babe that works there..So many times when I am in there checking out I will see her at a distance giving me eye contact prolonged eye contact that is... this has gone on a few months now and I know I should approach but I am in no hurry.

It's like I can be staying in line at the check out and I will look over her way and it's like she has radar or something and will stop doing what she is doing and zero in on me for what seems like 5 seconds which is in this context a bit of time..

This last time feeling like a ****y suave mother ****er I threw her a kiss as I was leaving and wonder after hindsight how this will go over with her and if it was a mistake. Not that this matters and I will be heart broken and cry a river since I am seeing two other women that are babes.

I guess my confidence the past few months has gone out the roof something I have not felt in a long time and I think I am the sh*t throwing her a kiss like that then again maybe I am;) nothing wrong with thinking positive.

I felt like doing something completly different shock treatment plus this is the lady who gave me the cold shoulder where she gave me complete silence after I asked her out. When she did that I walked away and never looked back this was 3 years ago on April 7th at 1:30 pm 32 seconds it was a sunny day and breezy like spring is suppose to be and I was feeling like a stud muffin she was wearing a blue blouse with jeans OK just kiddng.

I wonder if she has a change of heart or whats going on in her head with her giving me prolonged eye contact which is a sign of interest I know which was the same thing she did 3 years ago..AW comes to mind but I could be wrong. I am more muscular then I was 3 years ago and really wonder if she even remembers me asking her out.

Whats you take?

LoneSilver
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ask her out again. All she can do is say no again. Obviously it didn't have a lasting negative effect on your self-confidence the first time.
 

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I think you have utterly failed with this girl......

And this is my proof:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=147782

There is no Fvcking way that these two posts are just a mere coincidence!

Especially, since they were posted on the same fvcking day!!! LMAO :crackup:
 

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considering the post that this is now linked to, were you likereally bored and decided to make another user account on here?? considering the join date of the post by the maker of the other post....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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silkcru007

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so whatd she do after you threw the kiss? Approach her and be more aggressive.
 

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Option 1: Forget about her.
Option 2: Approach her and actually say a few words.
 

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Not really related specifically to this thread, but to daygameguy
-----> I wanted to know a bit more about what exactly your signature is suppose to mean? Please enlighten me..... :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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