"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I Threw Her A Kiss

LoneSilver

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I often shop this one store and notice this one babe that works there..So many times when I am in there checking out I will see her at a distance giving me eye contact prolonged eye contact that is... this has gone on a few months now and I know I should approach but I am in no hurry.

It's like I can be staying in line at the check out and I will look over her way and it's like she has radar or something and will stop doing what she is doing and zero in on me for what seems like 5 seconds which is in this context a bit of time..

This last time feeling like a ****y suave mother ****er I threw her a kiss as I was leaving and wonder after hindsight how this will go over with her and if it was a mistake. Not that this matters and I will be heart broken and cry a river since I am seeing two other women that are babes.

I guess my confidence the past few months has gone out the roof something I have not felt in a long time and I think I am the sh*t throwing her a kiss like that then again maybe I am;) nothing wrong with thinking positive.

I felt like doing something completly different shock treatment plus this is the lady who gave me the cold shoulder where she gave me complete silence after I asked her out. When she did that I walked away and never looked back this was 3 years ago on April 7th at 1:30 pm 32 seconds it was a sunny day and breezy like spring is suppose to be and I was feeling like a stud muffin she was wearing a blue blouse with jeans OK just kiddng.

I wonder if she has a change of heart or whats going on in her head with her giving me prolonged eye contact which is a sign of interest I know which was the same thing she did 3 years ago..AW comes to mind but I could be wrong. I am more muscular then I was 3 years ago and really wonder if she even remembers me asking her out.

Whats you take?

LoneSilver
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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AKA FLEX

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Ask her out again. All she can do is say no again. Obviously it didn't have a lasting negative effect on your self-confidence the first time.
 

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I think you have utterly failed with this girl......

And this is my proof:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=147782

There is no Fvcking way that these two posts are just a mere coincidence!

Especially, since they were posted on the same fvcking day!!! LMAO :crackup:
 

Bryce556

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considering the post that this is now linked to, were you likereally bored and decided to make another user account on here?? considering the join date of the post by the maker of the other post....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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silkcru007

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so whatd she do after you threw the kiss? Approach her and be more aggressive.
 

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Option 1: Forget about her.
Option 2: Approach her and actually say a few words.
 

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Not really related specifically to this thread, but to daygameguy
-----> I wanted to know a bit more about what exactly your signature is suppose to mean? Please enlighten me..... :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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