"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I think we have 4 types of guys here

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0. Guys who are still scared to talk to women

1. Those who want to talk to women and over analyze everyword they say to em

2. U got guys who can talk to women but have no luck in getting anywhere

3. U got guys who get laid by these women but don't know how what to do after
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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5.) Guys who have learned how to talk to women and know how to keep them around after you get done.

A very small percentage of the males at sosuave.net

- comic_relief
 
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then why you still here?
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To help AFC's who post dumb **** like this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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At the moment, I'm stuck at base two, but with perseverance I feel I can reach base 3 again.
 
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women haze said:
To help AFC's who post dumb **** like this?
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Nah man, stay true to yourself. You didn't find this forum so that you can dedicate your time to help noobs .

BS you keyboard jocky

What im saying is you all came here for a reason in the first place
 
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DJnoob said:
Nah man, stay true to yourself. You didn't find this forum so that you can dedicate your time to help noobs .

BS you keyboard jocky
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But then again, I don't think that every single person who eventually gets good with women leaves this forum immediately afterword. Believe it or not, there's quite a few people (including me) who are more than happy to help out any fellow "n00bs" who are only starting out in the game. We believe that as we start teaching others, our understanding of the game becomes greater & more refined. Hence, we help ourselves by helping others. :yes:
 
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DJnoob said:
0. Guys who are still scared to talk to women

1. Those who want to talk to women and over analyze everyword they say to em

2. U got guys who can talk to women but have no luck in getting anywhere

3. U got guys who get laid by these women but don't know how what to do after
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Is it possible to be all four, lol?
Oh, and I'm also #5 that comic relief mentioned.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJnoob said:
0. Guys who are still scared to talk to women

1. Those who want to talk to women and over analyze everyword they say to em

2. U got guys who can talk to women but have no luck in getting anywhere

3. U got guys who get laid by these women but don't know how what to do after
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You don't use zero in a list dumbass.


I fail to see the purpose of this thread. All the guys here are looking to improve their lives in some way. Most with women, some in other ways because they already have women but aren't really happy.
 
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I fail to see the purpose of this thread. .
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There is too much fluff on this site. It needs better moderation. To many stupid post fly by. Post that are off topic and serve no purpose but to focus on unnecessary bull****. Stronger moderation is needed.
 
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You don't use zero in a list dumbass.


I fail to see the purpose of this thread. All the guys here are looking to improve their lives in some way. Most with women, some in other ways because they already have women but aren't really happy.
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LOL. :woo: That was classic.

You don't use zero in a list. That was hilarious.

Anyway I wanted to point out this the general mindset people have in this forum is AFC is something bad. In fact it isn't.

It is just where you want to be. If you are happy being AFC, or you choose to have that AFC mindset and is comfortable living lives. So be it. A person being a DJ but is living lives miserably will not be better off if all that he wished is to be himself which is an AFC. That is rare but there are people who are like that.

There is no right or wrong. Wherever you are, you need to be happy yourself.
 
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I don't want to be an AFC, but I don't particularly want to be a PUA either.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warrior74 said:
There is too much fluff on this site. It needs better moderation. To many stupid post fly by. Post that are off topic and serve no purpose but to focus on unnecessary bull****. Stronger moderation is needed.
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Whatever.


PS I'm not sitting on my ass, staring at a screen waiting for people to post. The Mods here have LIVES. They VOLUNTEERED to help. We are not on the board 24/7. It's easy to say do a better job when you are sitting up in the bleachers shouting at the players.

You don't think we are doing a good enough job for you? Volunteer to become a Mod...Yes. See how easy it is. See how much gratitude, love and respect you get for giving away countless hours of your time to your brothers here.

Maybe you should criticize your own actions and words before looking at others.

PPS Your signature sucks! JMHO.

PPPS pointless thread closed
 
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