"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think we have 4 types of guys here

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DJnoob

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0. Guys who are still scared to talk to women

1. Those who want to talk to women and over analyze everyword they say to em

2. U got guys who can talk to women but have no luck in getting anywhere

3. U got guys who get laid by these women but don't know how what to do after
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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5.) Guys who have learned how to talk to women and know how to keep them around after you get done.

A very small percentage of the males at sosuave.net

- comic_relief
 

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DJnoob said:
then why you still here?
To help AFC's who post dumb **** like this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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At the moment, I'm stuck at base two, but with perseverance I feel I can reach base 3 again.
 

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women haze said:
To help AFC's who post dumb **** like this?
Nah man, stay true to yourself. You didn't find this forum so that you can dedicate your time to help noobs .

BS you keyboard jocky

What im saying is you all came here for a reason in the first place
 

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DJnoob said:
Nah man, stay true to yourself. You didn't find this forum so that you can dedicate your time to help noobs .

BS you keyboard jocky
But then again, I don't think that every single person who eventually gets good with women leaves this forum immediately afterword. Believe it or not, there's quite a few people (including me) who are more than happy to help out any fellow "n00bs" who are only starting out in the game. We believe that as we start teaching others, our understanding of the game becomes greater & more refined. Hence, we help ourselves by helping others. :yes:
 

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DJnoob said:
0. Guys who are still scared to talk to women

1. Those who want to talk to women and over analyze everyword they say to em

2. U got guys who can talk to women but have no luck in getting anywhere

3. U got guys who get laid by these women but don't know how what to do after
Is it possible to be all four, lol?
Oh, and I'm also #5 that comic relief mentioned.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJnoob said:
0. Guys who are still scared to talk to women

1. Those who want to talk to women and over analyze everyword they say to em

2. U got guys who can talk to women but have no luck in getting anywhere

3. U got guys who get laid by these women but don't know how what to do after
You don't use zero in a list dumbass.


I fail to see the purpose of this thread. All the guys here are looking to improve their lives in some way. Most with women, some in other ways because they already have women but aren't really happy.
 

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I fail to see the purpose of this thread. .
There is too much fluff on this site. It needs better moderation. To many stupid post fly by. Post that are off topic and serve no purpose but to focus on unnecessary bull****. Stronger moderation is needed.
 

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You don't use zero in a list dumbass.


I fail to see the purpose of this thread. All the guys here are looking to improve their lives in some way. Most with women, some in other ways because they already have women but aren't really happy.
LOL. :woo: That was classic.

You don't use zero in a list. That was hilarious.

Anyway I wanted to point out this the general mindset people have in this forum is AFC is something bad. In fact it isn't.

It is just where you want to be. If you are happy being AFC, or you choose to have that AFC mindset and is comfortable living lives. So be it. A person being a DJ but is living lives miserably will not be better off if all that he wished is to be himself which is an AFC. That is rare but there are people who are like that.

There is no right or wrong. Wherever you are, you need to be happy yourself.
 

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I don't want to be an AFC, but I don't particularly want to be a PUA either.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warrior74 said:
There is too much fluff on this site. It needs better moderation. To many stupid post fly by. Post that are off topic and serve no purpose but to focus on unnecessary bull****. Stronger moderation is needed.
Whatever.


PS I'm not sitting on my ass, staring at a screen waiting for people to post. The Mods here have LIVES. They VOLUNTEERED to help. We are not on the board 24/7. It's easy to say do a better job when you are sitting up in the bleachers shouting at the players.

You don't think we are doing a good enough job for you? Volunteer to become a Mod...Yes. See how easy it is. See how much gratitude, love and respect you get for giving away countless hours of your time to your brothers here.

Maybe you should criticize your own actions and words before looking at others.

PPS Your signature sucks! JMHO.

PPPS pointless thread closed
 
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