"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think we have 4 types of guys here

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0. Guys who are still scared to talk to women

1. Those who want to talk to women and over analyze everyword they say to em

2. U got guys who can talk to women but have no luck in getting anywhere

3. U got guys who get laid by these women but don't know how what to do after
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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5.) Guys who have learned how to talk to women and know how to keep them around after you get done.

A very small percentage of the males at sosuave.net

- comic_relief
 

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then why you still here?
To help AFC's who post dumb **** like this?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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At the moment, I'm stuck at base two, but with perseverance I feel I can reach base 3 again.
 

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women haze said:
To help AFC's who post dumb **** like this?
Nah man, stay true to yourself. You didn't find this forum so that you can dedicate your time to help noobs .

BS you keyboard jocky

What im saying is you all came here for a reason in the first place
 

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DJnoob said:
Nah man, stay true to yourself. You didn't find this forum so that you can dedicate your time to help noobs .

BS you keyboard jocky
But then again, I don't think that every single person who eventually gets good with women leaves this forum immediately afterword. Believe it or not, there's quite a few people (including me) who are more than happy to help out any fellow "n00bs" who are only starting out in the game. We believe that as we start teaching others, our understanding of the game becomes greater & more refined. Hence, we help ourselves by helping others. :yes:
 

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DJnoob said:
0. Guys who are still scared to talk to women

1. Those who want to talk to women and over analyze everyword they say to em

2. U got guys who can talk to women but have no luck in getting anywhere

3. U got guys who get laid by these women but don't know how what to do after
Is it possible to be all four, lol?
Oh, and I'm also #5 that comic relief mentioned.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJnoob said:
0. Guys who are still scared to talk to women

1. Those who want to talk to women and over analyze everyword they say to em

2. U got guys who can talk to women but have no luck in getting anywhere

3. U got guys who get laid by these women but don't know how what to do after
You don't use zero in a list dumbass.


I fail to see the purpose of this thread. All the guys here are looking to improve their lives in some way. Most with women, some in other ways because they already have women but aren't really happy.
 

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I fail to see the purpose of this thread. .
There is too much fluff on this site. It needs better moderation. To many stupid post fly by. Post that are off topic and serve no purpose but to focus on unnecessary bull****. Stronger moderation is needed.
 

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You don't use zero in a list dumbass.


I fail to see the purpose of this thread. All the guys here are looking to improve their lives in some way. Most with women, some in other ways because they already have women but aren't really happy.
LOL. :woo: That was classic.

You don't use zero in a list. That was hilarious.

Anyway I wanted to point out this the general mindset people have in this forum is AFC is something bad. In fact it isn't.

It is just where you want to be. If you are happy being AFC, or you choose to have that AFC mindset and is comfortable living lives. So be it. A person being a DJ but is living lives miserably will not be better off if all that he wished is to be himself which is an AFC. That is rare but there are people who are like that.

There is no right or wrong. Wherever you are, you need to be happy yourself.
 

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I don't want to be an AFC, but I don't particularly want to be a PUA either.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warrior74 said:
There is too much fluff on this site. It needs better moderation. To many stupid post fly by. Post that are off topic and serve no purpose but to focus on unnecessary bull****. Stronger moderation is needed.
Whatever.


PS I'm not sitting on my ass, staring at a screen waiting for people to post. The Mods here have LIVES. They VOLUNTEERED to help. We are not on the board 24/7. It's easy to say do a better job when you are sitting up in the bleachers shouting at the players.

You don't think we are doing a good enough job for you? Volunteer to become a Mod...Yes. See how easy it is. See how much gratitude, love and respect you get for giving away countless hours of your time to your brothers here.

Maybe you should criticize your own actions and words before looking at others.

PPS Your signature sucks! JMHO.

PPPS pointless thread closed
 
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