I think way too much...

[One on One]

I can't seem to shake this problem. I was doing well for a while, but it's gotten worse as I've had less time to absorb this site, less time to socialize, and more time sitting lonely bored at work for 8 hours a day watching the life get sucked out of me. Anyways, my problem is that whenever I like a girl, I make this stupid assumption that she knows I like her. So, I make it hard on myself that way. I erroneously think that when I say anything to her, she's going to see through it and now I'm trying to ask her out eventually. Has anybody else dealt with this? How can I get past it?

 

[NoBull]

This is one of the most primitive questions I've read since I joined, and coming from someone with almost 1000 posts is absurd. I don't think I can tell you anything that you haven't read here before.

 

[RawkinKaoticStyle]

me too, but we have something in common

how much time do we spend alone rather then interacting with people.... i bet its more alone , adleast thats with me

theres the question ... you supply the answer

 

[Omega]

Originally posted by One on One
I can't seem to shake this problem. I was doing well for a while, but it's gotten worse as I've had less time to absorb this site, less time to socialize, and more time sitting lonely bored at work for 8 hours a day watching the life get sucked out of me. Anyways, my problem is that whenever I like a girl, I make this stupid assumption that she knows I like her. So, I make it hard on myself that way. I erroneously think that when I say anything to her, she's going to see through it and now I'm trying to ask her out eventually. Has anybody else dealt with this? How can I get past it?

See through it? Uh, isn't the whole point to pick her up? She already knows this from the time you say Hi.

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

I know posting lines from movies has become a bit trite on this board..but..remember that line from the movie swingers when they're in the vegas bar...

Trent: Girls dress this way because they want you to notice them...they already know what you want...DON'T APOLOGIZE FOR IT!

My thoughts exactly. They already know guys are going to approach them. That's why they're dubbed attion wh*res..they love it..they thrive on it. But, being sappy and needy isnt the way to approach it. Give a little attentino..then pull back. Be indirect. Never reveal all your intentions. Like a game of texas holdem...why show all your cards before the game's over...bluff...play the c/f role...be a DJ.

You've been on this site long enough to know the specifcs and the how to of getting a woman's interest level up.

The attitude you should approach is a feeling of NOT GIVING A F*CK =)