"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think this may be the formula for infatuation

st_99

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Thought about it a bit and I'm pretty sure if you want to get a girl
infatuated with you (fake love, more of a chemical thing) simply put its:

Σ (k,t,rp) = ta x 0 = i

where

k = kino (touch)
t = time investment
rp = role play (act like you're a couple)
ta = take it all away
i = infatuation


so simply put, touch her somewhere, arm, lower back to break the physical barrier. pretend as if you were a couple, talk to her like you would your girlfriend, invade her personal space, invest some time together.. a perfect example would be like a student instructor relationship where you are showing her how to do something, that would be an example of time investment, then suddenly take it all away. She'll most likely get infatuated with you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If only formulas worked in a non perfect world..
 

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good method to stroke your ego

this plan may work too good and induce major clinging, and depending on social circles she can foil your potential dates
 

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forgive me for misunderstanding but isnt "time investment" detrimental? Arent you supposed to be a mystery? Dont you have to be scarce? Isnt Seeing too much of you gona make her lose interest?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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youngmack said:
forgive me for misunderstanding but isnt "time investment" detrimental? Arent you supposed to be a mystery? Dont you have to be scarce? Isnt Seeing too much of you gona make her lose interest?
i'm talking about a couple weeks of time, then back off. you need some time investment plus all the other stuff, the touching, the role playing, to create a hook. Otherwise you won't create much of an impression. the basic idea is to flood her brain with dopamine and then have her wanting more like an addict.

she doesnt have to like you like, omg he's so hot or perfect, for it to work imo, you just need to be 'acceptable', meaning, not hideous or some lame dude with terrible social skills. average or better is fine.
 
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