"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think this may be the formula for infatuation

st_99

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Thought about it a bit and I'm pretty sure if you want to get a girl
infatuated with you (fake love, more of a chemical thing) simply put its:

Σ (k,t,rp) = ta x 0 = i

where

k = kino (touch)
t = time investment
rp = role play (act like you're a couple)
ta = take it all away
i = infatuation


so simply put, touch her somewhere, arm, lower back to break the physical barrier. pretend as if you were a couple, talk to her like you would your girlfriend, invade her personal space, invest some time together.. a perfect example would be like a student instructor relationship where you are showing her how to do something, that would be an example of time investment, then suddenly take it all away. She'll most likely get infatuated with you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If only formulas worked in a non perfect world..
 

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good method to stroke your ego

this plan may work too good and induce major clinging, and depending on social circles she can foil your potential dates
 

youngmack

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forgive me for misunderstanding but isnt "time investment" detrimental? Arent you supposed to be a mystery? Dont you have to be scarce? Isnt Seeing too much of you gona make her lose interest?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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st_99

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youngmack said:
forgive me for misunderstanding but isnt "time investment" detrimental? Arent you supposed to be a mystery? Dont you have to be scarce? Isnt Seeing too much of you gona make her lose interest?
i'm talking about a couple weeks of time, then back off. you need some time investment plus all the other stuff, the touching, the role playing, to create a hook. Otherwise you won't create much of an impression. the basic idea is to flood her brain with dopamine and then have her wanting more like an addict.

she doesnt have to like you like, omg he's so hot or perfect, for it to work imo, you just need to be 'acceptable', meaning, not hideous or some lame dude with terrible social skills. average or better is fine.
 
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