"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think this may be the formula for infatuation

st_99

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Thought about it a bit and I'm pretty sure if you want to get a girl
infatuated with you (fake love, more of a chemical thing) simply put its:

Σ (k,t,rp) = ta x 0 = i

where

k = kino (touch)
t = time investment
rp = role play (act like you're a couple)
ta = take it all away
i = infatuation


so simply put, touch her somewhere, arm, lower back to break the physical barrier. pretend as if you were a couple, talk to her like you would your girlfriend, invade her personal space, invest some time together.. a perfect example would be like a student instructor relationship where you are showing her how to do something, that would be an example of time investment, then suddenly take it all away. She'll most likely get infatuated with you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If only formulas worked in a non perfect world..
 

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good method to stroke your ego

this plan may work too good and induce major clinging, and depending on social circles she can foil your potential dates
 

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forgive me for misunderstanding but isnt "time investment" detrimental? Arent you supposed to be a mystery? Dont you have to be scarce? Isnt Seeing too much of you gona make her lose interest?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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st_99

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youngmack said:
forgive me for misunderstanding but isnt "time investment" detrimental? Arent you supposed to be a mystery? Dont you have to be scarce? Isnt Seeing too much of you gona make her lose interest?
i'm talking about a couple weeks of time, then back off. you need some time investment plus all the other stuff, the touching, the role playing, to create a hook. Otherwise you won't create much of an impression. the basic idea is to flood her brain with dopamine and then have her wanting more like an addict.

she doesnt have to like you like, omg he's so hot or perfect, for it to work imo, you just need to be 'acceptable', meaning, not hideous or some lame dude with terrible social skills. average or better is fine.
 
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