I meant share them. With me.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I think stormrider is right brodies
- Thread starter 360dagod
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sure, you're right. I don't know one red pill aware man or woman that's sober. I really don't.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So we will have a point we disagree on and it's okay.
I really don't know any and I doubt @LARaiders85 will take me seriously but I'd love to meet whichever man or woman he knows that is red pill aware and sober.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Sober as in NEVER has had a drink, or Sober as in doesn't drink often? ALOT of people have a drink every so often.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
lol, not even embarassed....I'm a risktaker...had to try, thanks for replying.
This is a similar reply to what I used to see on OLD. lol.
Not sure the definition will back me up but sober=never. Thanks for your reply.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Good luck. I don't agree with folks who have never "done" anything. People live life. But if your preference is never drank, then that's your preference.
Thanks man!