I meant share them. With me.There isn't much to share, they just don't drink or do drugs lol
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I meant share them. With me.There isn't much to share, they just don't drink or do drugs lol
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sure, you're right. I don't know one red pill aware man or woman that's sober. I really don't.So you get to label all red pill as alcohol and drug abusers. You also assume all or most have "approach anxiety"..
So we will have a point we disagree on and it's okay.Sure, you're right. I don't know one red pill aware man or woman that's sober. I really don't.
I really don't know any and I doubt @LARaiders85 will take me seriously but I'd love to meet whichever man or woman he knows that is red pill aware and sober.So we will have a point we disagree on and it's okay.
Sober as in NEVER has had a drink, or Sober as in doesn't drink often? ALOT of people have a drink every so often.I really don't know any and I doubt @LARaiders85 will take me seriously but I'd love to meet whichever man or woman he knows that is red pill aware and sober.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lol, not even embarassed....I'm a risktaker...had to try, thanks for replying.No lol
This is a similar reply to what I used to see on OLD. lol.Sober as in NEVER has had a drink, or Sober as in doesn't drink often? ALOT of people have a drink every so often.
Good luck. I don't agree with folks who have never "done" anything. People live life. But if your preference is never drank, then that's your preference.This is a similar reply to what I used to see on OLD. lol.
Not sure the definition will back me up but sober=never. Thanks for your reply.
Thanks man!Good luck. I don't agree with folks who have never "done" anything. People live life. But if your preference is never drank, then that's your preference.