I think my problem is I'm not chasing enough and showing enough interest

[Ringleader41]

Because a girl went up to my friend and said I was sexy, but she didn't think I liked her at all because I didn't show any attraction, so she moved on. Another girl got mad at me because I never approached her at some thing. My problem is shouldn't I let the women do the chasing and I thought if you showed interest you're screwed pretty much.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Good interest: "Oh you like me? Maybe I like you, maybe I don't. Find out."

Bad interest: "I LOVE YOU. PLEASE TALK TO ME."

Because a girl went up to my friend and said I was sexy, but she didn't think I liked her at all because I didn't show any attraction, so she moved on.

For fvcks sake. Did you talk to her? Flirt with her? Make her laugh, call her cute? Then tell her to buzz off? Because that usually works wonders with the proper delivery.

My problem is shouldn't I let the women do the chasing and I thought if you showed interest you're screwed pretty much.

She already did the chasing AND the initiation AND she was completely blunt about it. You didn't respond. Bad, bad job. Awful bad.

Try harder.

You've got them interested, so you're clearly doing something right. Do not change that. Now you need to follow through all the way.

 

[Ringleader41]

Ya I suck at sealing the deal. The only girls I've hooked up with were them throwing themselves at me. I've never had to initiate anything. This is when looks suck ass for me.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Ya I suck at sealing the deal. The only girls I've hooked up with were them throwing themselves at me. I've never had to initiate anything. This is when looks suck ass for me.

You ever have a girlfriend or a girl who was a friend and you were cool with? Someone you can talk to and treat like a guy, but with kid gloves.

 

[Ringleader41]

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