"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think my problem is I'm not chasing enough and showing enough interest

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Because a girl went up to my friend and said I was sexy, but she didn't think I liked her at all because I didn't show any attraction, so she moved on. Another girl got mad at me because I never approached her at some thing. My problem is shouldn't I let the women do the chasing and I thought if you showed interest you're screwed pretty much.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Good interest: "Oh you like me? Maybe I like you, maybe I don't. Find out."

Bad interest: "I LOVE YOU. PLEASE TALK TO ME."

Because a girl went up to my friend and said I was sexy, but she didn't think I liked her at all because I didn't show any attraction, so she moved on.
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For fvcks sake. Did you talk to her? Flirt with her? Make her laugh, call her cute? Then tell her to buzz off? Because that usually works wonders with the proper delivery.

My problem is shouldn't I let the women do the chasing and I thought if you showed interest you're screwed pretty much.
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She already did the chasing AND the initiation AND she was completely blunt about it. You didn't respond. Bad, bad job. Awful bad.

Try harder.

You've got them interested, so you're clearly doing something right. Do not change that. Now you need to follow through all the way.
 
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Ya I suck at sealing the deal. The only girls I've hooked up with were them throwing themselves at me. I've never had to initiate anything. This is when looks suck ass for me.
 
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Ringleader41 said:
Ya I suck at sealing the deal. The only girls I've hooked up with were them throwing themselves at me. I've never had to initiate anything. This is when looks suck ass for me.
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You ever have a girlfriend or a girl who was a friend and you were cool with? Someone you can talk to and treat like a guy, but with kid gloves.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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