"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think my LTRs cheating

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Please help guys:confused:
I have a major prob! My HB8 LTR I think is messing wiv me! The other week she said she was on a works do which i believed untill my pal said he saw the B**** with some scrawny dude in her town! I made out to my pal that i knew the geezer and he was a pal! know she is being shady wiv her mobile and i dont know whats going on? I dont know what to say to my LTR? HELP:(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Simply confront her about it.

Tell her that you would like to know how she feels, if she is happy, unhappy.

It looks like she is playing away, but you need to kinda make her admit it to you. To do this, you need to assure her that you are willing to be adult about it.

As soon as she admits to it, bust her ass! Kick the lying b*tch out!

But if you really like her, then try to work things out.

From women who have cheated on their husbands/bfs with me, I have learnt that women ONLY cheat when they are no longer happy and not getting the attention they need.
 
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call her out on it....
sit down with her .
then ask her what she did on that day.
if she dont tell u about the scrawny guy, tell her that a mate saw u with this dude .
ask her about it.
then just say if she wants to be with other people fine , just stop wasting my time....

say all this with a calm voice.

dont go all freeky deeky over it , and scream and stuff....

be cool the hole time...

if she cheated on you then just brake up with her , cuz once a cheater always a cheater....
 
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Cheers guys I will try that later but at the mo its not looking too good my pal has just told me that the same happened again this weekend and i am slowly losing my cool
 
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no need to lose your cool.

trust me, go out, find some other bird and sh*g her brains out.

trust me, it helps! ;-)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Fash
no need to lose your cool.

trust me, go out, find some other bird and sh*g her brains out.

trust me, it helps! ;-)
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This guy has the right idea. Do yourself a favor and get your sh!t and walk away from her before you really screw yourself by knockin' her up and her shatting out your 18 year commitment.
 
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