"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I think my LTRs cheating

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Please help guys:confused:
I have a major prob! My HB8 LTR I think is messing wiv me! The other week she said she was on a works do which i believed untill my pal said he saw the B**** with some scrawny dude in her town! I made out to my pal that i knew the geezer and he was a pal! know she is being shady wiv her mobile and i dont know whats going on? I dont know what to say to my LTR? HELP:(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fash

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Simply confront her about it.

Tell her that you would like to know how she feels, if she is happy, unhappy.

It looks like she is playing away, but you need to kinda make her admit it to you. To do this, you need to assure her that you are willing to be adult about it.

As soon as she admits to it, bust her ass! Kick the lying b*tch out!

But if you really like her, then try to work things out.

From women who have cheated on their husbands/bfs with me, I have learnt that women ONLY cheat when they are no longer happy and not getting the attention they need.
 

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call her out on it....
sit down with her .
then ask her what she did on that day.
if she dont tell u about the scrawny guy, tell her that a mate saw u with this dude .
ask her about it.
then just say if she wants to be with other people fine , just stop wasting my time....

say all this with a calm voice.

dont go all freeky deeky over it , and scream and stuff....

be cool the hole time...

if she cheated on you then just brake up with her , cuz once a cheater always a cheater....
 

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Cheers guys I will try that later but at the mo its not looking too good my pal has just told me that the same happened again this weekend and i am slowly losing my cool
 

Fash

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no need to lose your cool.

trust me, go out, find some other bird and sh*g her brains out.

trust me, it helps! ;-)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Fash
no need to lose your cool.

trust me, go out, find some other bird and sh*g her brains out.

trust me, it helps! ;-)

This guy has the right idea. Do yourself a favor and get your sh!t and walk away from her before you really screw yourself by knockin' her up and her shatting out your 18 year commitment.
 
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