"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think my LTRs cheating

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Please help guys:confused:
I have a major prob! My HB8 LTR I think is messing wiv me! The other week she said she was on a works do which i believed untill my pal said he saw the B**** with some scrawny dude in her town! I made out to my pal that i knew the geezer and he was a pal! know she is being shady wiv her mobile and i dont know whats going on? I dont know what to say to my LTR? HELP:(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Simply confront her about it.

Tell her that you would like to know how she feels, if she is happy, unhappy.

It looks like she is playing away, but you need to kinda make her admit it to you. To do this, you need to assure her that you are willing to be adult about it.

As soon as she admits to it, bust her ass! Kick the lying b*tch out!

But if you really like her, then try to work things out.

From women who have cheated on their husbands/bfs with me, I have learnt that women ONLY cheat when they are no longer happy and not getting the attention they need.
 
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call her out on it....
sit down with her .
then ask her what she did on that day.
if she dont tell u about the scrawny guy, tell her that a mate saw u with this dude .
ask her about it.
then just say if she wants to be with other people fine , just stop wasting my time....

say all this with a calm voice.

dont go all freeky deeky over it , and scream and stuff....

be cool the hole time...

if she cheated on you then just brake up with her , cuz once a cheater always a cheater....
 
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Cheers guys I will try that later but at the mo its not looking too good my pal has just told me that the same happened again this weekend and i am slowly losing my cool
 
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no need to lose your cool.

trust me, go out, find some other bird and sh*g her brains out.

trust me, it helps! ;-)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Fash
no need to lose your cool.

trust me, go out, find some other bird and sh*g her brains out.

trust me, it helps! ;-)
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This guy has the right idea. Do yourself a favor and get your sh!t and walk away from her before you really screw yourself by knockin' her up and her shatting out your 18 year commitment.
 
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