"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think my **** is broken

vlf445

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I've been doing everything I can to try and fix this. All of a sudden I just can't get hard anymore. My girl and I try to have sex almost every night...and i just cant do it. Basically the only time I get hard enough to penetrate is right before I bust...so theres almost no point in me penetrating her. Recently I've almost completely stopped masturbating, I've upped my exercise, and am trying to eat healthier. I thought this would get better over time but in reality the problem has only gotten worse over the past week and a half or so. Sorry if this post is too graphic for some but this problem is literally eating me alive.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bukowski_merit

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how old are you? this has recently began to happen to me, but im approaching 30 and from what i hear, it's just a side effect of age! ha...

but things i find that help are exercise, and... the exact thing you're avoiding... masturbation...

i don't really have time in my brain to think about sex, or get turned on from looking at a clothed woman or anything... i've seen it all.. there's no rainbow under there... and it's hardly a pot of honey...

so... i try to have sex or masterbate 2-3 times a day... particularly in the morning when my thing doesn't like to finish (meaning i can get it up fine, but never get it out).... i watch really filthy porno (stuff i would never do) and it helps me... seriously... and then when a woman comes over for a day... im able to have sex with them 2-3 times then...

i just wish it was a little while ago when i could bust, and go against right after without stopping.... i seem to have lost that ability and it was a really impressive ability.... i miss it =(
 
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